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NetWorthing™ Today, how are people told to network? The perspective of the target contact
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Networking is often touted as the best way to find a new job. This is a very accurate statement and will only continue to be more and more of a reality in years to come. However, there are about as many suggestions on how to network as there are consultants. It is not surprising, then, to discover that most people do not network correctly. In fact, there are some, who we lovingly dub "job stalkers," who abuse networking, bringing it to the brink of becoming an unwelcome intrusion. Because there are misconceptions about how networking should be done, and because we consider networking to be the foundation upon which "NetWorthing" is built, we decided to present a comprehensive program on networking first. Then we take networking to the next level, raising the bar, to NetWorthing. Please don't look at this as a rehash of what you already know. Look at it as "sharpening your axe". At the end you will have a stronger foundation, and you will be enlightened by networking's next generation: NetWorthing!
"If I had eight hours to chop down a tree, I'd spend six sharpening my axe!" ~Abraham Lincoln The anecdote is about a woodcutter who talks his way into getting a job cutting down trees. The first day he cuts down 18 trees. The boss loved it and encouraged him. The second day, the fellow worked even harder, but only managed to cut down 15 trees. The third day, he was only able to cut down 10 trees. The fellow thought he was losing his strength and went to his boss to apologize for his deteriorating performance. The boss asked him, "When was the last time that you sharpened your axe?" "Sharpen? I had no time to sharpen my axe. I have been busy trying to cut down trees!" (This plays into sharpening your skills as part of the NetWorthing process.)
Stephen Covey is credited with this anecdote.
Networking is the process of requesting assistance from people who might be able to help in your job search. The more people you network with, the greater your odds of being at the right place, at the right time. The contacts you make may lead to job referrals. This sounds good, but it is "me" focused. It also puts a huge burden on the networker to "obtain" contacts, gathering as many business cards as possible. It is also considered that networking is something you only do when looking for a job. This is outdated thinking!
In the world of work, networking is, indeed, a very critical determinant to business success and gaining employment. Even the Wall Street Journal reported two years ago that 94% of successful job seekers claimed that networking had made all the difference with a successful job search. Networking comes in many forms -- everything from meeting an old friend for a cup of coffee to attending a high power networking meeting. In today's market, you have to realize that making and keeping contacts is essential to career growth, it's often a case of networking or not working. We see NetWorthing as a higher level of networking! Make sure to offer any information, help and insight you can in return. NetWorthing should be mutually beneficial whenever possible. Thank the contact and make plans to meet again. Keep the contact aware of your future career moves and ask about their plans. This process of nurturing contacts will sustain and enhance your career. Converting to NetWorthing
Today, how are people told to network? Specifically, what do they do, step by step:
How do you feel about this process? Are you doing it or avoiding it? Honestly, how many events or hours a week do you invest in this process?
The perspective of the target contact If I were on the receiving end of one of your prepared, well-rehearsed phone calls, what would I be immediately thinking?
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